It's proven. Really. To all of you who'd gotten advices from me before... isn't it true?
But you know what, what has happened has already happened. No point crying over spilled milk. Lick it. LOL!
Okay, but point is, if there's no remedy for the situation, you know what you should do?
I'd bless you with two words.
"Move On"
Let me give you the ultimate secret of my 'move on' technique.
Hey, exclusively for my readers one okay! people and friends are always amazed by the way I manage to be positive and move on, so i shall share the ultimate secret. I'll give different scenarios in future. But let's start off with the most common scenario
could have but never had/ Got dumped
1) The most common 'get your butt moving' scenario
2) Convince yourself that you'd done your best and given the same situation again, you'd have made the same decision/choice (Trust me, this is the most important step. I always tell myself even if given in the same situation once again, I'd have done the same thing.)
3) Do whatever it takes for you to KNOW everything that had happened. (This is also important. Because you do not want to look back at the past anymore. So in order to do that and not leave any lingering unanswered questions, make sure you know what happened in the r/s.. why both of you broke up etc. YOU'VE EVERY RIGHTS TO KNOW!)
4) Given in the context that your ex-partner has a dick in his mouth or has some serious attitude problem with settling everything once and for all, just skip to point 5
5) Your ex-partner is a dick. CONGRATS! YOU MADE THE RIGHT DECISION! BUT forgive your ex-partner. Have the attitude that says, "Too bad". Of course, not asking you to be conceited etc. But do not allow your self-esteem to be lower down because of him/her! But anyway, bottom line is to forgive. I mean, we don't want to waste our emotions/time on stupid people, right?
6) Do not be stupid to delete the phone number from your phone. HELLO! Please!! As if you don't remember his/her number?!
7) Remove all the pictures/gifts etc from your room given by the ex-partner, dump it in a box and THROW AWAY. If you still have his/her stuffs in your room, use a permanent ink marker, write, "TOO BAD" and be nice, return it back to him/her
8) Do stuffs which you couldn't do before when you were in a r/s. ENJOY YOURSELF!
9) In any case, if your ex-partner contact you, sound like you've better things to do!
10) In no time, you'd get over the dick-head! YIPPEE! =) But what's most important is, BE DETERMINED AND ENJOY BEING SINGLE!
See, people. It's as simple as you look. Because it's all your head!!
Remember! If you got dumped and you'd done your best: YOU DESERVE BETTER AND YOU SHOULD NOT AND CANNOT BE SEEN IN THE DUMPS! THE ONE WHO SHOULD BE LOWERING HIS/HER HEAD AND EATING BANANA SKIN IS THE STUPID GUY/GIRL WHO DUMPED YOU! SO YOU KNOW WHAT?!
LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST AND BE POSITIVE!
Because trust me...
The next person who is coming up next in your life, is going to be much better.
Wait and see
"And this marks THE END of the entry."
11:31 AM
11:31 AM
Living a life full of life. That's all about me that you should know.