Monday, March 02, 2009
Top things you were not to do/say when quarrelling
I'm sure everyone argues/debates/quarrel with your significant other/bf/gf/partner etc.
But there are a few pointers which should serve as a simple reminder to all of you:
1. Never use "names" - No "Stupid", no, "dumb", no "bitch" and whatever not.
2. Do not say things like, "You get on my nerves." Because you know what would I do if someone say that to me? If i were not to control my words, I'd say, "Good. Because I don't plan on being anywhere near your nerves or your face from now on." Since I get on your nerves, what's the point?
3. Do not say things like, "You are kicking a fuss out of nothing." Oh, that's funny. So you do not kick a fuss out of nothing? What makes you think your problems that you initiated are nothing to me? Who knows? Maybe I sleep around and I think it's nothing. HA
4. Do not say things like "I can't be bothered"
5. Never point your finger. Only people who thinks they are more superior than others do that.
6. Never stare. What? You want to fight?
7. Never walk in front without your partner. I doubt anyone wants to feel like the maid. If i were the partner, I'd walk off and take a cab without you. And I'll go, "walk faster lah, walk some more."
There are plenty more of course. Take it from me, the experienced.
People quarrel/argue/debate due to differences. And it's not helpful in pin-pointing out the differences and go, "yours is nothing." Because something that I mind, yes, might not be something that you mind but being in a relationship, if your significant other minds, there's more than just to say, "You kick a big fuss out of nothing." isn't it?
I don't remember using that on anyone and I'd never intended to use that. Because I understand how it feels. When my friend comes to me with a problem, even as small as, "He didn't pick up my phone!" and she begin to throw tantrum (I'm not pin-pointing or directing this at anybody.) I won't go, "Eh, you bo liao is it? Kicking a fuss out of nothing." If she cares and mind enough to throw tantrum, it's not nothing anymore, isn't it.
People who uses that sentence just cannot be bothered. Even if you meant it as, "Do we really have to quarrel over this?", well, it does not imply in that way.
Let me ask you people, can i control guys from looking at me? Like what the freak someone gets pissed or upset when other guys look at me.
I'd call THAT as kicking a big fuss.
Sometimes, i feel so discouraged that I don't feel like doing anything anymore.
I don't even feel like feeling.
I won't care/bother anymore. I guess, perhaps this way, nothing will go wrong.
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