Contented
The future is important. Plans are important. But we should always focus on the present and be contented with what we have. Because from there, when we are focus and contented in the present, then, we'd be able to focus and plan out our future. It is when we are contented, we realized what we possess that other people doesn't. Given the fact that an individual is not contented, he/she would be focusing on all the negative thoughts which are unnecessary because I believe everyone have positive and negative thoughts. If there are both, why choose the negative? Be contented. The people who only had 30minutes to live in ICU hospital which they were you instead.
Learn to let go
I know this is really hard and it's easier said than done. Every couple does have quarrels and fights. But what makes a strong couple is that both parties learn to let go. We let go of our mistakes and forgive ourselves. Then, we'd be able to learn from our mistakes and not commit the same ones again. If we continue to beat down ourselves with blames and all, we'd never move on. So tell yourself, "Given the same situation again at that moment of time, I'd have done the same thing. But not in future because I'd learned to do better."
Think and act rationally
Now, whenever you are genuinely pissed and all, give yourself one hour or more to calm down before you act on anything. You can't control your feelings but you can control your actions. Tell yourself, "Okay. take a deep breath, calm down. That way, i can think better. By being angry like this, things are not going to get better." After you've calmed down, then think through the situation again. Always seek to understand the other party first. NEVER demand for others to understand your point of view first. Put yourself in that individual's shoe and all. Yes. You might not have acted that way if you were him/her, but given his/her character, think again, would you?
And the rest, shall be continued next time because I'm hungry! *grins*
"And this marks THE END of the entry."
7:08 AM
7:08 AM
Living a life full of life. That's all about me that you should know.